Tuesday, March 13, 2007
Emotional needs and the test
EMOTIONAL NEEDS. First of all let’s see what is an emotional need? It is a craving that, when satisfied, leaves you with a feeling of happiness and contentment, and, when unsatisfied, leaves you with a feeling of unhappiness and frustration. There are probably thousands of emotional needs. A need for birthday parties, peanut butter sandwiches, Friday’s discos, I could go on and on. Some have them, some don't. If you feel good doing something, or when someone does something for you, it's meeting an emotional need.
But not all emotional needs are created equally. When some are met, you may only feel comfortable--they make small Love Bank deposits. There are others, however, that can make you feel downright euphoric when met. In fact they make you so happy that you're likely to fall in love with the person that meets them. Psychologists call those as most important emotional needs because, when met, they make the largest Love Bank deposits of all.
EMOTIONAL TESTS. Emotional intelligence is a very recently described intelligence form, and this concept exists since 80Th years of the twentieth century. In summary, emotional intelligence is the ability to sense, understand, and effectively apply the power and acumen of emotions as a source of human energy, information, connection, and influence. The following skills belong to the highly developed emotional intelligence – to be independent from your own feelings and ability to adjust yourself to them, ability to recognize, name and direct your feelings, discern the nuances of feelings and use them in positive way, and, as a consummation, can derive actions from it. Emotional intelligence accompanies our daily life and in many cases as important as the “common” intelligence, especially in our modern society.
And if you want to know how you are able to deal with your feelings and emotions you can just do emotional test, which will reveal you these knowledge and much more. When I did test, I was surprised slightly, because results show me some character's’ sides about which I have never thought. It was interesting to self – actualize, and I suggest you to do that too.
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This composition is very comprehensible. It is easy to understand it and a pleasure to read it :) plus, you can always use it in your own life. Very informative and interesting.
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